Marriage Preparation Program

Our Theology of the Body Marriage Preparation Program, TOBET4Engaged, is a flexible, holistic program that covers practical, down-to-earth topics in order to form couples to live healthy, holy marriages. Some of them include:

  • Communication
  • Family of Origin
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Finances
  • Family Planning

TOBET4Engaged goes even deeper. It examines all these practical topics precisely through the lens of St. John Paul’s Theology of the Body. Couples develop familiarity with TOB themes and deepen their understanding of the “whys behind the whats” of the Catholic Church’s teaching on marriage and sexuality. Some common TOB themes include:

    • The “Spousal” Meaning of the Human Body
    • Masculinity & Femininity: Archetypes, Not Stereotypes
    • The Sacramental Vision of Marriage
    • Marital Love as a Person-to-Person Encounter

    And more!

     

    Approved by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB)
    Nihil Obstat: Janet E. Smith, Ph.D., October 28, 2014
    Imprimatur: +Most Reverend Mark J. Seitz, D.D., Bishop of El Paso, November 5, 2014

    We suggest each couple use 2 Marriage Preparation Books (one for each person) for instruction, as well as 2 Marriage Preparation Journals (one for each person) to write their personal thoughts in.

    TOBET4Engaged Program Elements

    The foundation of our program, with 80 pages of diagrams, stories and thought-provoking questions, TOBET’s Theology of the Body Marriage Preparation book helps engaged couples dive into Theology of the Body as it applies to married living!

    • Clear, solid Catholic teaching: Nihil Obstat and Imprimatur
    • Includes helpful visual diagrams which correspond to Facilitator Resources (see other tabs)
    • Available in English, Spanish, & Vietnamese

    Also see T4E’s corresponding journal containing discussion questions: Great for individual use, and helpful in facilitating couple dialogue!

    Click the image for a preview of our marriage preparation book.

    Testimonials

    This book is a real contribution to the need for truly useful marriage preparation materials based on the Theology of the Body.
    Janet E. Smith, Ph.D.

    Thank you guys so much for new understandings on so many things. This class I believe has brought us closer to each other and to the Lord.
    Groom-To-Be

    Thank you for this class! It was very informative and I appreciate all the hard work that went into planning. The instructors & speakers provided real-life examples and hardships that all couples face. It was not just the happy but the real.

    Bride-To-Be

    The TOBET facilitator really knew how to reach the average engaged couple. The Theology of the Body book, slideshow presentation, and Facilitator Guide set a firm foundation in understanding the truth of marriage, which is so needed nowadays. I highly recommend this program.
    Chris Vaughan

    Director of Marriage and Family Life, Catholic Diocese of Fort Worth

    Thank you so very much! I appreciate this course and I plan on recommending it to Catholics AND non-Catholics.

    Bride-To-Be

    It was very good! We will review the book and have more discussions at home. We intend to begin praying together as a result of this class and will implement the book’s other suggestions as well.

    Groom-To-Be